The 3rd Episode of The Wedding Planners

I'm so excited to share with you the 3rd episode of The Wedding Planners!  Our holiday episode is chalked full of laughter!  Thank you so much for all the views and positive feedback since our debut episode back in October and I'm sure the 3rd episode will not disappoint!  We will be talking about wedding cakes and  with Mary Winslow of Cake Chicago; great DJing tips from Harsh Singh of DJ Harsh Chicago; and how to prepare your face for wedding day make-up from celebrity make-up artist Sonia Roselli.

The Wedding Planners holiday set created by Daniel's Florist and Art of Imagination

It wouldn't be a holiday episode of we didn't dress the part! LOL!

Holiday kisses to you from The Wedding Planners!

The Wedding Planners with their guests Sonia Roselli and DJ Harsh

Make sure to check us out at www.thewedplanners.com and share the 3rd episode with your friends!  And many thanks to Rush Event Photography and Video Productions for producing and directing a fab show!

Until next time...Watch The Wedding Planners and WEDologize!

...I Found It, You Pin It...Friday!

That moment after you have said "I DO" on a snowy winter day and you are in the arms of your new spouse as and he's protecting you with plain black umbrella from the failing snow.  This CAPTURED MOMENT is POWERFUL and WOW FACTOR for any wedding album. Simply a perfect moment!

Until next time...PIN IT and WEDologize!

(photo credit -Wistful Weddings)

Children and Wedding Planning

  Many couples are blending families and the adjustment for the child can sometimes be difficult. With all the wedding planning, the children could feel left out and it's very important to make them feel included during the planning process and on wedding day.  You do not want children to move forward into the marriage feeling resentful of their parent's new partner.

I've listed some suggestions below that just might help alleviate the "sad face".  Consider including a few, if not all, during your wedding planning.

• Allow the child to be involved in a few of the planning meetings and give their opinion and make sure to take them on appointments with you.
• Give the children perimeters, but allow them to select their attire for wedding day. 
• During the unity candle lighting or sand ceremony, have the child join you both at the altar and make them apart of this important ceremony. 
• Ask the children to come the altar before the pronouncement of husband and wife, and ask the minister to pronounce you as "Husband, Wife and Family". 
• During the ceremony, present the children with a loving token like a necklace or bracelet to show them they play an important role in the new family. 
• Include the children in the engagement photo session and display not only couple photos during the reception, but photos showcasing the "new" family. 
• Have a kids table with goody bags and treats during the reception.

Until next time...WEDologize!

(photo credit - www.intimateweddings.com)

Inspired By The Holidays!

As the Christmas holiday approaches, I'd like to wish all of the WEDology by Dejanae Events readers a VERY safe and happy holiday season!  Please enjoy this silver and red inspiration and enjoy the holiday season with family and friends!!! xo

Until next time...Happy Holidays and WEDologize!

(photo credit - cake; wedding gown; bouquet, red shoes, specialty cocktail, mirrors)

...I Found It, You Pin It...Friday!

I love the GLAMOUR and SEXINESS of the sequin black linens, but what really sends it over the top is the lemon-colored satin napkin!  HAUTE with that gorgeous orchid placed perfectly on top with the modern menu peaking out of the napkin. MODERN ELEGANCE at it's BEST!

(Photo credit - www.hwtm.com)

Blast Off! The Wedding Countdown!

As a wedding planner in the game for over 12 years, wedding timelines are a staple when working with couples. NEVER hire a planner that is not willing to create one! There are plenty of tasks that need to be accomplished before the big day and I've listed a few things based on a monthly breakdown as you journey to your wedding day.

Based on a 9 month calendar, these mentionables will need to be checked off your checklist at latest by the month listed:

Month 9

Select your ceremony and reception location

Contact the Officiant

Month 8

Hire your photographer and/or videographer

Month 7

Order your gown, attendants gowns and mother's gowns

Month 6

Select your invitation ensemble/suite

Month 5

Order your wedding cake

Month 4

Hire your DJ and/or reception entertainment

Month 3

Make final selection for men's attire

Month 2

Mail your in-state wedding invitations

Month 1

Get your marriage license

Week of Wedding

Confirm all arrangements with hired vendors

Have wedding rehearsal and rehearsal dinner

Until next time...WEDologize!

(photo credit - Image Makers Photography)

10 Ways to Include Your Groom!

Most people, including the groom, accept the fact that the wedding is mostly about the bride and what she wants on that special day. But I'm seeing more often the groom wanting to play a role in the planning of their wedding day. Heck "Groomzillas" have even surfaced in some cases! But if your groom isn't participating as much as you'd like...I've listed some ideas to make him feel special and join in the planning process.

Photo credit - www.tuxshirt.com

1. The funniest thing to see at a wedding reception is a Groom's Cake that reflects the groom's personality or hobby. Make sure to include his favorite cake flavor. I had a groom's cake for a construction worker/Bears fan and the cake was a blue and orange hammer. Love it!
2. Have a couples shower in which both the bride and groom are celebrated by family and friends.
3. Present a video at the reception with pictures, set the the groom's favorite music, of the groom's life leading up to wedding day.
4. I just had a bride do one of the most beautiful things I've seen in my 12 years as a planner. She wrote a poem for her groom and had it read aloud by one of her dear friends right before she walked down the aisle. I *heart* that idea!
5. If you are a dancer or singer, do a special tribute to your groom at the wedding reception.
6. When registering, include the groom and let him register for some of those fun man items!!
7. Get the groom a sentimental pre-wedding gift or a massage the eve of the wedding.
8. You both should work with the band or DJ to make sure some of the groom's favorite songs are played during the reception.
9. Have the groom control one aspect of the planning process (photography, entertainment, transportation, etc.).
10. ...and last but not least, invite him to all the planning meetings with your wedding planner even if he's unable to attend.

Until next time...WEDologize!